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Chinese New Year eve

The food mum cooked for prayers. Before we eat, the ancestors must eat first. Chinese New Year is a thing for my family. Since we are descended from Chinese Peranakans, our food preparation is like a military operation which can take days – without the order or strategy.
And for some reason, Chinese New Year eve lunch feels like a bigger deal for my family.
It usually takes Mum a day cutting and chopping and half a day just cooking the meals for prayers.
Each year I tell my Mum to just order said meals, each year she reacts in outrage. Though after each cookout she swears next year we will definitely order. And then next year I will remind her to order the food and she will again react with outrage.
It has been 20 years of this and I wonder why I keep trying đ
After food is served and prayers are made, Dad will throw two coins to the floor and ask the ancestors if they have eaten.
If it is two heads they are laughing.
If two tails – no response.
If it’s one head and one tail, they have finished the meal.
Hey, I don’t make the rules. That’s what dad says.

Once the ancestors have eaten, dad will take a little tin container to burn paper money for my ancestors to enjoy.
Then only will the humans eat.
For the traditional Chinese New Year eve dinner, this year Mum wants to do something different.
We will be eating at Chilli’s đ
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From self-hosted WordPress to WordPress.com
Thanks to the dominance of SEO optimised posts about WordPress from all manner of companies, any blog posts about wordpress.com is very, very difficult to find. Especially those about moving from self-hosted WordPress to WordPress.com. Here are some I discovered and kept for posterity:
“…was surprised that they offer WordPress.org hosting. I always thought that WordPress.com offered only Multisite (i.e. no FTP and restrictions on themes and plugins). The best part is that the Business plan (which I signed up for) is about 40% of the price that I was paying for my previous hosting).”
https://organicweb.com.au/wordpress/moving-wordpress/“… thereâs software out there that just kind of bridges the gaps between hosted and self-hosted. Most prominently, thatâs WordPress.com. Itâs the company founded by the creator of the actual blogging software WordPress, which can still be downloaded and then installed on your own space, but instead of doing this, WordPress.com hosts your blog on their space.”
From https://stormgrass.com/a-rebuilt-wordpress-com/Back in June, I decided to migrate this blog from a self-managed installation of WordPress to WordPress.com. Iâd done the self-manage thing for more than ten years, and I decided that I would rather spend my time writing instead of managing my site.
From https://jamierubin.net/2021/12/19/a-shoutout-for-wordpress/Depending on your personal/organization goals and requirements, moving your self-hosted WordPress site to hosted WordPress.com can remove the headache of constant maintaining and updating your WordPress site.
Which reduces your cost and investment in your website.
So you can focus on your organization/business as well as writing new content for your site.
From https://www.lireo.com/do-you-really-need-a-self-hosted-wordpress-site/ -
For the love of economy rice

Nothing is more typically Malaysian than the “economy rice” store. These places sell âchap funâ (a Cantonese word for “mixed rice”), vegetable & meat dishes which you eat with your rice.
Chap fun stalls are usually found in restaurant corner, often run by an uncle or aunty who calculates the price of your meal in mysterious ways. All you hope for is a fair deal.
These days, chap fun shops are very modern & sophisticated, serving up to 20+ dishes!
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Twitter misleads
How Twitter misleads us about how many people have left â and what to do about it
Social feeds are engines for distorting social understanding. Hereâs how to push back against the algorithm.
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Algorithms and creativity
“In the absence of an algorithm there is only your own creative compass.”
In the #Fediverse I discovered people like @ewen who understood the impacts algorithms had on creativity. I felt the same sense of suffocation as a writer.
In other spaces besides #Mastodon such as #Twitter nobody really understood my angst against it and thought I was strange. “It doesn’t matter what you think. Suck it up,” said an SEO guru to me once.
Great article đ I felt seen.
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Solarpunk fiction
Learned about a new science fiction genre today – Solar Punk
“Solarpunk stories take place in futures where humanity, technology, and nature live in harmony rather than in conflict.”
TBH, it sounds a lot like Star Trek which makes me think I will love this genre!
Who are the authors in this genre?
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ChatGPT and tech writers
Are tech writers going to lose their jobs? How can they adapt?
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Disconnecting from the electric grid
âOn May 22, 2022, I began an experiment. I unplugged everything in my apartment, with the goal of drawing zero power from the electric grid for one month. I had no idea how I would make it past a few days⌠As I type these words in January, Iâm in my eighth month.â