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Why I Left Apple’s Ecosystem

I had a Macbook Air, iPad, iPhone, and was about to buy an Apple watch to complete the set. But last year, I did an about-turn. I ditched my Macbook for a Thinkpad, got a Huawei phone (a hand-me-down), and a smartwatch.
Was it because I wasn’t happy with the quality of Apple products? No, in fact, I admit the build and design of Apple products are superior. I always felt as if I was working on a piece of art each time I used an iPad or Macbook. And I still happily prefer my iPad over my Samsung tablet.
So, why did I leave the Apple ecosystem? Let me roll out the reasons for you.
Reason #1 Apple’s walled garden
Apple products are designed in such a way that you have to stay in their ecosystem. In a way, it’s cool that their products work seamlessly together. However, you’d end up dealing with lots of limitations. For one, I find it difficult to find Apple-compatible gaming software and I grew frustrated having to only use Apple-only products. For example, I couldn’t buy third-party iPhone chargers because they stopped working after a few charges. And what’s with removing ports so that you have to buy their latest thingamajic to get the same functionality? That annoys me the most.
Reason #2 I’m denied right to repair and upgrade however I want to
In Malaysia, where I live, we have computer shops that cobble together a PC for you according to the specs you want. If I wanted to upgrade the desktop to a better version, all I had to do was go to the shop and ask for a part or two to be upgraded.
Apple doesn’t give you that kind of freedom. You need to repair your items in shops approved by them. You need to buy stuff from shops approved by them. Fortunately, in good old Malaysia, we have cowboy outfits that openly repair iPhones, and most of us go to them for that.
In a way, I get that it helps Apple control quality, and it’s part of the reason why Apple products “just works” is because it is a closed ecosystem.
But I disliked having to upgrade just because they deemed my device “too old”. I hate having to buy a new thingamajig when my old dongle worked just fine – just because Apple removed a port. I hate that I can’t repair my MacBook or upgrade them independently.
Reason #3 When you are locked into their ecosystem you gotta do things their way
Closely tied to Reason #1. When you are reliant on one company to provide you the products you need to use to earn a living, you have to just accept whatever changes they roll out.
I discovered it the hard way when I wanted to use an app, but my current OS was not compatible. But when I tried to install the new OS, they said I didn’t have enough cloud space, so please buy some so that you can install the new OS. It was ridiculous. I knew that the tiny amount of hard disc space was going to bite me in the ass one day, but I’ve only used the Macbook for three years and I barely installed anything!
Fortunately, after much cleaning up, I managed to install the new OS, but just barely. But I found myself looking hungrily at the generous amount of HD space that the Thinkpad was offering … at the same price.
I never forgot the feeling of helplessness when a pop up appears that I need to do this or that to do a basic function. And that task usually involves money.
So that’s how they profit from us, byte by byte, install by install.
I grew really tired of being locked behind any ecosystem of products, services and forced upgrades. Apple lost me because of that – I hate being told to upgrade just because Apple has deemed my version of iPad obsolete. Or having to buy cloud space because they gave me a barely functional amount on my laptop. PCs not only give me a better deal for the same amount of money spent, I enjoy the freedom it offers, and in the long run, it is just more cost-effective.
Reason #5 It is f**king expensive
What most folks in the West do not realize is that Apple products are EXORBITANT in Asia. People get in debt to “afford” them, just to flash an iPhone to look cool.
But then there’s the whole Foxconn Apple scandal where workers were made to work in horrible ways just to meet their exacting demands.
I read about the whole thing in the book, Haunted Empire: Apple After Steve Jobs. In fact, after reading the book, I had such distaste over their corporate practices that it made me feel like a saint for leaving their ecosystem.
Now, I’m not the sort to announce on social media that I’ve stopped using a product because the CEO is a Nazi or something. (Though it will probably hasten my search for an alternative.) Mainly because having a purity stance is problematic. Every company in the world is tainted in some way. The best we can do is to choose a company that can fulfill my needs ethically. It’s often a losing battle as there are far too many skeletons in corporate closets to keep up with.
But what really gets my goat about the whole Foxconn thing is how Apple, despite charging exorbitant prices, are treating the workers that are actually making the products that make them their profits like sh*t. Wait, you say. Apple doesn’t control Foxconn, other people are doing this to the workers. But as I read the book, Haunted Empire, it is Apple’s demanding ways that caused Foxconn to turn the screws on their workers, and Apple is conveniently closing one eye.
Reason #4 The zealotry of Apple fans

Behold, the Apple fanboi I never understood the zealotry around Apple. It’s like a religion or something. And I shy away from all cult-like thinking. I am wary of brands that foster such slavish fan worship. It disturbs me and I don’t want to be a part of that.
Reason #5 I miss my freedom and options
It’s the same reason why I left Twitter and Facebook for Mastodon. Why I embraced IndieWeb and now blog the POSSE/PESOS way. I realised that Apple products, shiny and high quality as they are, were trapping me in one way of doing things. I could see a time when I became so dependent on Apple products that I couldn’t break away, so I broke away the first moment I could. I do miss the sleekness and “it just works” feel of my Apple, but I wasn’t willing to pay insane prices just to do my work when PC-related products could do it for me just fine.
So yeah, in a nutshell, I left the Apple ecosystem because I like my freedom too much, and I was just getting way too nervous being so dependent on one company!
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Indiana Jones and the Temple of Political Correctness
To my surprise, I loved Indiana Jones: The Dial of Destiny. It had a lot of good ol’, classic Indiana Jones moments: The crazy chase, the ancient tombs and traps, bugs and snakes. It’s a movie where you need to switch off your brain off and enjoy it. Watching it made me feel like a kid again. It was a perfect send off for one of cinema’s most iconic characters.
Yet, if you had looked online, especially on Youtube movie channels, you would have thought it was terrible.
These days, I do my best to avoid any information about upcoming movies. I’ve long realised that reviews or even the non-spoilery opinion of people tend to colour my perception of movies.
We don’t seem to enjoy movies for the sake of it this days. We always have to tie it with some serious commentary on culture, politics and gender.
Maybe it has to do with the need to create content in a way that pleases the algorithm: saying something that will provoke a big emotional reaction. And creators love to provoke anger and indignation because that’s where you get all those juicy comments that algorithms like.
That said, let’s talk about the most controversial Indy movie: The Temple of Doom.

Naturally, after returning from watching The Dial of Destiny, I rewatched Raiders of the Lost Ark and then, The Temple of Doom.
And yeah, it’s as wildly politically incorrect as I remember it. 😅 All the unflattering depictions of india that you can imagine. That meal at the palace, for one, was especially cringe worthy. As far as I know, Indian cuisine did not include snakes, monkey brains or other manner of creepy crawlies. As many Indians are vegetarians, I can imagine the indignation that must’ve provoked!
Temple of Doom would have been eviscerated in today’s social media and would probably never have been made.
Yet, I loved The Temple of Doom because of its sheer over-the-top hamminess. It was just a fun movie, and while it was not my favourite, it sure gave me a good time when I watched it — even in the politically correct times of 2023.
Creativite works will always be confronting and challenging. Not to say that The Temple of Doom was right in what it did (I think they could at least not insult Indian cuisine!), bu it was an over-the-top, straight out of a pulp novel story and was never meant to be taken seriously.
I think we have forgotten to just park our brains aside and enjoy movies. Everything must be evaluated for political and cultural correctness these days. Every movie is now yelled at for being “too woke” or “anti woke”. Why have we gotten so stodgy?
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Google: All your content are belong to us
Apparently, Google has changed their privacy policy and now says that they’ll scrape everything you post online to train their AI tools. I post my Fiction online on Substack and my WordPress blog and now wonder if this is a bad idea.
What makes me most mad about this Google “will scrape what you post online to train AI tools” thing is the gall of them to claim they have the right to do so. They index the Internet, they DON’T own it. I pay for hosting fees, I write the content. It’s like a postman taking things from your house just because he delivers things to your address.
It’s fine if they open a programme calling for data sets submissions with compensation.
It would’ve been fine if they were a company that created Internet tools with ethics in mind.
No, it’s “all your content are belong to us”.

I struck up a conversation on Mastodon about this, and I was hoping someone would come along to tell me that I’m panicking for no reason. But no, most of the responses I got was a resigned “acceptance” that there was no stopping them.
I think the worse thing about this is how some folks who work in tech are rolling their eyes at our reactions.
I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised by the lack of empathy some #tech bros have about the whole “Google is scraping content to train their AI” thing. Lots of people defending Google in tech forums, saying this has been done forever so why are we being such a baby about it?
Maybe because all they can think about is $$ they can get from us content producers and we’re standing in the way of that. All that yummy free content that they could mind and we have the gall to complain about being plundered so they could earn money from our labour? Pfft! We’re so entitlted, us content creators!
I feel like the Internet is devolving faster than my emotions can keep up.
Wondering if there’s a way to protect my content more if I use WordPress or Substack now that Google is openly admitting what we have suspected they have been doing all along.
I heard that paywalls/subscriber only walls can deter them?
What do you think writers can do to protect their content? Or should we just roll over and accept that this is the way things will be from now on?
Read: Google Says It’ll Scrape Everything You Post Online for AI
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A Dream of Splendor – review

Finally, a Chinese drama that is not just beautiful to look at, but is well acted, authentic, and celebrates womanly ideals and the female gaze.

The story
Zhao Pan’er, an intelligent and resourceful teahouse owner stumbles on a big conspiracy when she happens to be on the site of an ambush. Gu Qianfan, a leader of the elite Capital Security Office and nicknamed the “Living Devil”, forces her to help him escape.
This fateful meeting changes her life forever.
After that terrible night, Pan’er life takes an unexpected turn. Her fiancé Ouyang Xu, whom she had supported for many years, has abandoned her for a woman of higher social standing after gaining a prestigious position in the Capital.
Pan’er decides to travel to the Capital to find out the truth. She ends meeting Qianfan again. On the run from people who want him dead, he ends up having to rely on her to survive. (Unexpectedly, so does she.)
They are later joined by her two friends, Sun San Niang and Song Yin Zhang, who were both wronged by their husbands as well.
When they reach the Capital, all four have to face numerous trials. Fortunately, they now have each other.
The episodes (slight spoilers)

Episodes 1-16
My favourite arc of all. Our lovers meet, and what a messy meeting it was! Pan’er stumbles on Gu Qianfan as he is fleeing for his life. Instead of being the noble hero, he strikes Pan’er with a dart and tricks her into helping him escape. This one incident forces the two to rely on each other for weeks as they try to achieve their own goals. Qianfan wants to find out who is trying to get him killed. Pan’er wants to find her good-for-nothing Ouyang Xu who ditched her for a noblewoman once he became the Third Scholar.
Episodes 17-26
Our lovers have now confessed their love for each other and despite needing the keep their relationship secret, they are openly being lovey-dovey all over the Capital … not that I’m complaining, but I really doubt this was how people behaved in ancient China. But I forgive all things because Chen Xiao and Crystal Liu have such chemistry that, seriously, who cares about history and cultural norms when the guy can make your ovaries melt with a gaze?
Episodes 27-34
The “troubled” episodes. After such a strong and solid start, it’s as if the writer ran out of ideas to raise the stakes, so she throws the most eye-rolling plot contrivances imaginable including a period of noble idiocy from our until-now faultless Qianfan. Also, the jealous and half-insane Ouyang Xu returns to plague our couple with nefarious and frankly, stupid schemes. Various other political shenanigans get in the way of our couple’s happiness, and so on until the bitter end.
A reviewer on Youtube commented that it was best to forget everything that happened after episode 27 and just end it there. Can’t help but agree with her!

What I liked
- The leads’ natural, explosive chemistry. Far too often I cringe at kissing scenes or the skinship in Chinese or Korean dramas. But Qianfan and Pan’er not only has explosive chemistry but a very mature relationship where they (gasp) discuss things. I was particularly impressed by Pan’er’s refusal to flirt any further until Qianfan tells her what’s his true intentions were. When he finally declares it, he does it in such a charm and chivalrous way you can help but sigh with happiness.
- The exploration of Chinese tea culture. This is sad but I never knew that the Chinese had such a deep culture around tea. In this drama, we learned how tea was made and celebrated among the masses. I really appreciate that.
- It’s all about Girl Power but not it’s not in your face. I really enjoy watching the three women overcome their humiliation at the hands of men they loved and finding confidence in their abilities.
- The beauty of the costumes, the sets, heck, even the food. I love that the filmmakers stayed as a true as possible when it came to the period’s clothing and architecture. I felt as if I was looking at a painting.
What I disliked
- That noble idiocy arc. Communicate, people! After doing so well in the first 27 episodes, our couple suddenly stops communicating with each other. I totally understand why Qianfan was afraid to face Pan’er, but to do what he did felt out of character. Fortunately, the two regains their marbles and starts talking like adults again, but after far too many episodes of not communicating. That arc should’ve been cut short.
- Ouyang Xu as a villain. He was, at first, a sympathetic villain. I almost understood why he did what he did. He was a weak man with little courage to go against social norms to really have a life with Pan’er. He never deserved her in the first place, but for him to suddenly go all mustache-twirling villain in the last ten episodes was not very believable nor convincing.
- The plot stumbling towards the end. It’s truly odd how the show stumbled towards the end. The stumble wasn’t catastrophic and it certainly didn’t render the show unwatchable, but it had been so perfectly crafted until episode 30 or so.
Last verdict
Is it worth watching? Most certainly. It also has a good ending, if you’re one to worry about that. (Chinese dramas have a very notorious reputation of turning tragic at a dime)
Mastodon log (spoilery)
I occasionally post my thoughts to social media. Here’s my log (please forgive the spelling mistakes!)
19 March 2023
Everything about A Dream Of Splendor is stunning. The sets, the costumes, the music, the actors…yes I am shameless enough to say that the eye candy is a big part of why I am enjoying the show.
Too few Chinese Dramas have this standard. And I wonder why they don’t bother reaching this level.
I also love Pan’er, the female lead in this one. Strong, witty, yet flawed … She’s not the typical squeaky-voiced female in a CDrama I hate so much 😆
23 March 2023
Sanniang eavesdropping on our couple; Gu Xianfang’s “logical” explanations on why it is ok for him to take off Pan’er’s robe to “see if her injuries have healed” and his reminder that she already took off his clothes before, so what’s the fuss? And Sanniang’s scandalized expression to this – priceless!!
Enjoying this CDrama so much!
Spoilers ahoy – from 5:33
25 March 2023
Can these two get any swoonier?
PS: Spoilerific video
But seriously this amount of public skinship is not a thing in ancient China and would probably land these two in a lot of trouble.
But do I care?
NOOOOAAAAHHHH7 April 2023
That besotted look in Xianfang’s eyes when he spies Pan’er dancing – first, at the tea house during a a tea ceremony, and then alone under the moonlight. Can’t blame him for being smitten, of course!13 April 2023
What I love about A Dream Of Splendor is that I can enjoy it at a leisurely pace. I love the natural chemistry of the main couple and learning about China’s ancient tea culture. It’s a slice of life drama so some people complain about the pacing, but I find it perfect. I just watch an episode a day and feel satisfied. Maybe this is something I need at a time like this when life is so hectic.
https://global.chinadaily.com.cn/a/202206/24/WS62b57126a310fd2b29e686a8.html




